Comments on: And the walls came crashing down… http://i-v-effed.com/?p=179 not your average infertility blog (I hope) Wed, 06 Jun 2012 11:48:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Cathy http://i-v-effed.com/?p=179&cpage=1#comment-148 Cathy Tue, 27 Oct 2009 19:58:05 +0000 http://i-v-effed.com/?p=179#comment-148 I think I'm going to take your last two paragraphs and paste it to my mirror or something. I was on a chat board with a dozen women, 5 of whom are due within a month on either side of where my due date would have been if either my IVF or surprise PG had worked. All of whom got PG within the first month or two of trying. Thank God I only have one SIL. My BFF started trying after us and has a 8 month old. My other BFF just started trying and I'll have to find a way to be happy for her BFP too. What people don't understand is that I'm not pissed or upset that they're going on with their life. I'm not expecting people to put their life on hold for me. I just can't be immediately happy because I just want to BE them. How amazing would it be to just have sex a few times in a month and get PG? They don't even know how lucky they are and will never ever appreciate that. I think I’m going to take your last two paragraphs and paste it to my mirror or something. I was on a chat board with a dozen women, 5 of whom are due within a month on either side of where my due date would have been if either my IVF or surprise PG had worked. All of whom got PG within the first month or two of trying.

Thank God I only have one SIL. My BFF started trying after us and has a 8 month old. My other BFF just started trying and I’ll have to find a way to be happy for her BFP too.

What people don’t understand is that I’m not pissed or upset that they’re going on with their life. I’m not expecting people to put their life on hold for me. I just can’t be immediately happy because I just want to BE them.

How amazing would it be to just have sex a few times in a month and get PG? They don’t even know how lucky they are and will never ever appreciate that.

]]> By: Shelli http://i-v-effed.com/?p=179&cpage=1#comment-147 Shelli Mon, 26 Oct 2009 20:30:14 +0000 http://i-v-effed.com/?p=179#comment-147 aaaah, so were twins too. Both of my SIL's just had babies in the last few weeks. So I know the feeling.... I haven't been all that good with coping with feeling the "why me's" and "that's just not fair", but I do know that making peace with my broken body has helped me cope... a little. That and beating down my bad IF thoughts with a stick. lol. ((hugs)) aaaah, so were twins too.

Both of my SIL’s just had babies in the last few weeks. So I know the feeling….

I haven’t been all that good with coping with feeling the “why me’s” and “that’s just not fair”, but I do know that making peace with my broken body has helped me cope… a little. That and beating down my bad IF thoughts with a stick. lol.

((hugs))

]]> By: Wishing4One http://i-v-effed.com/?p=179&cpage=1#comment-146 Wishing4One Mon, 26 Oct 2009 10:09:55 +0000 http://i-v-effed.com/?p=179#comment-146 No this bitch IF will not break us. Not.at.all. But as we know some days and situations are harder than others. You WILL come out of this okay, and soon, you will not be the odd one out. I'm hoping me too. I mean when your husband's niece of like 27 or so just had her third baby,,,, that hurts. No this bitch IF will not break us. Not.at.all. But as we know some days and situations are harder than others. You WILL come out of this okay, and soon, you will not be the odd one out. I’m hoping me too. I mean when your husband’s niece of like 27 or so just had her third baby,,,, that hurts.

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