Comments for I.V.Effed: No Sex, No Lies, and No Videotape http://i-v-effed.com not your average infertility blog (I hope) Wed, 06 Jun 2012 11:48:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Beta Drops, So Does My Heart… by Lucky Once http://i-v-effed.com/?p=477&cpage=1#comment-5401 Lucky Once Wed, 06 Jun 2012 11:48:55 +0000 http://i-v-effed.com/?p=477#comment-5401 I can't imagine how heart wrenching it must be to not only see the birth of your nephew, but also go through your baby things so soon after your loss. I can certainly relate to the loss, though I haven't been through the IVF struggles that you've dealt with. I've had similar thoughts along the lines of "why can all these teen mothers and crack whores carry their babies to term, and I keep having miscarriages?". I'm hoping for you that the little frozen embie is your lucky break, and I hope that it gets a little easier as time goes on. I can’t imagine how heart wrenching it must be to not only see the birth of your nephew, but also go through your baby things so soon after your loss.
I can certainly relate to the loss, though I haven’t been through the IVF struggles that you’ve dealt with. I’ve had similar thoughts along the lines of “why can all these teen mothers and crack whores carry their babies to term, and I keep having miscarriages?”.
I’m hoping for you that the little frozen embie is your lucky break, and I hope that it gets a little easier as time goes on.

]]> Comment on So It Has Been a Week… by Elizabeth http://i-v-effed.com/?p=471&cpage=1#comment-5350 Elizabeth Wed, 30 May 2012 09:30:01 +0000 http://i-v-effed.com/?p=471#comment-5350 I too HOPE HOPE HOPE that you get to journey through new motherhood again, as it is what your heart so dearly desires. Hugs. I too HOPE HOPE HOPE that you get to journey through new motherhood again, as it is what your heart so dearly desires.

Hugs.

]]> Comment on So It Has Been a Week… by Heather http://i-v-effed.com/?p=471&cpage=1#comment-5300 Heather Tue, 22 May 2012 06:38:29 +0000 http://i-v-effed.com/?p=471#comment-5300 I am so sorry for your loss. I also love your child's simple view. Kids are so sweet :) I really hope that little one is still waiting for you and coming soon. I am so sorry for your loss. I also love your child’s simple view. Kids are so sweet :) I really hope that little one is still waiting for you and coming soon.

]]> Comment on Lost the coin toss by Alicia http://i-v-effed.com/?p=469&cpage=1#comment-5284 Alicia Sat, 19 May 2012 16:43:30 +0000 http://i-v-effed.com/?p=469#comment-5284 Oh my god. So so so so sorry hun. Breaks my heart. Hang in there. We're right here with you. Oh my god. So so so so sorry hun. Breaks my heart. Hang in there. We’re right here with you.

]]> Comment on It Happened/May Not Happen by Alicia http://i-v-effed.com/?p=464&cpage=1#comment-5283 Alicia Sat, 19 May 2012 16:40:57 +0000 http://i-v-effed.com/?p=464#comment-5283 Here from LFCA - nothing is easy about this journey, is it? Every ounce of hope I have is headed your way. I've added you to my bloglist... looking forward to following your journey as you move towards your happy ending. Hugs. Here from LFCA – nothing is easy about this journey, is it? Every ounce of hope I have is headed your way. I’ve added you to my bloglist… looking forward to following your journey as you move towards your happy ending. Hugs.

]]> Comment on It Happened/May Not Happen by daysofserenity http://i-v-effed.com/?p=464&cpage=1#comment-5274 daysofserenity Thu, 17 May 2012 23:24:31 +0000 http://i-v-effed.com/?p=464#comment-5274 Just found your blog. Hoping all turns out well like the other ladies said. Praying for patience and good results as you wait for friday! Just found your blog. Hoping all turns out well like the other ladies said. Praying for patience and good results as you wait for friday!

]]> Comment on Lost the coin toss by k http://i-v-effed.com/?p=469&cpage=1#comment-5272 k Thu, 17 May 2012 22:40:05 +0000 http://i-v-effed.com/?p=469#comment-5272 Much love for you. I'm thinking of you and hoping you can find your peace. I too am dealing with the closing of the door and I just want you to know you're not alone. Much love for you. I’m thinking of you and hoping you can find your peace. I too am dealing with the closing of the door and I just want you to know you’re not alone.

]]> Comment on Lost the coin toss by peesticksandstones http://i-v-effed.com/?p=469&cpage=1#comment-5263 peesticksandstones Wed, 16 May 2012 15:42:02 +0000 http://i-v-effed.com/?p=469#comment-5263 I'm really sorry to hear this -- sending you a hug from someone who's been there. I’m really sorry to hear this — sending you a hug from someone who’s been there.

]]> Comment on It Happened/May Not Happen by h http://i-v-effed.com/?p=464&cpage=1#comment-5259 h Tue, 15 May 2012 20:21:41 +0000 http://i-v-effed.com/?p=464#comment-5259 With my daughter (also after FET) my beta was at the very low end of the accpetable range. It doubled, but the numbers where nowhere near the averages. She also measured several days behind for quite a while. Everything was well. I had a HUGE beta during my first pregnancy followed by a miscarriage. Hang in there. Everything crossed. With my daughter (also after FET) my beta was at the very low end of the accpetable range. It doubled, but the numbers where nowhere near the averages. She also measured several days behind for quite a while. Everything was well.

I had a HUGE beta during my first pregnancy followed by a miscarriage.

Hang in there. Everything crossed.

]]> Comment on Lost the coin toss by Alexicographer http://i-v-effed.com/?p=469&cpage=1#comment-5258 Alexicographer Tue, 15 May 2012 16:23:33 +0000 http://i-v-effed.com/?p=469#comment-5258 Oh, I'm sorry. But, you sound relatively at peace with this. I hope things progress smoothly, and without needing medical intervention. Oh, I’m sorry. But, you sound relatively at peace with this. I hope things progress smoothly, and without needing medical intervention.

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